“Let Them”by Mel Robbin’s

Written By John Pentland

‍ Book cover ofThe Let Them Theoryby Mel Robbins (Harper Collins, 2024).Image courtesy of MelRobbins.com.

Sunday Reflection

This Sunday, I looked at the parallels between “Let Them” (a number one bestseller in Canada, by the way) and themes  in the religious world. I held the Bible in one hand and the book in the other.

To be honest, I had a hard time figuring out what to say. I read the book and couldn’t shape the sermon until 7 a.m. on Sunday. Phew! The real struggle was understanding the “why” behind it.

Obviously, the book is striking a nerve and helping people connect to their struggles, or supporting those weighed down by trying to control others.

My main point was that the goal of the Let Them theory is to free us from trying to control others, to simply be me and take responsibility for ourselves. That’s all God asks of us. It’s who the second man was in the parable Jesus told. I shared some of the biblical parallels.

Second Gaze

If I were to do it again, I’d give myself more time to prepare (famous last words!) and include stronger images and quotes. It’s a big topic and a worthwhile conversation.

In short, my second gaze would invite people to delve deeper into solitude — or listening to our souls — which, in my opinion, is Robbins’ true intent.

That’s where the gold lies!

Thanks for listening,

John

Questions:

  • Who rents the most space in your mind?

  • When have you “let them,” and it turned out to be a positive experience?

  • How does “let me” work for you?

Please share — I’ll try to respond.

John Pentland